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Liar, Liar, pants on fire!!

Updated: Jul 31, 2023

I met a woman, who I didn't know at the time had special needs. I also didn't know she had special needs kids. I would bring her to my home once or twice a month for late night fun. I only knew she stayed in a house with her family members. On one of her visits to my home, she told me her sister was putting her and her kids out of their house and none of her other family members, loves, sweethearts or baby daddies or their family members would help her and her kids. So I helped her and moved her and her 3 children in my home. I soon realized she was an alcoholic when, she started talking out loud to herself and she began demonstrating violent behavior, like domestic verbal abuse, trying to fight me, destroying my property and drinking fifths of gin, vodka ot tequila until she puked and passed out. Her kids also destroyed the majority of my personal property like beds, couches, tables, chairs and even destroyed my rental properties walls, doors, etc. and she didn't have money to replace or repair anything. Upfront, she never told me she was special needs and had special needs kids. 6 years later, they moved around the corner from my house into an apartment and we broke up. Now, she won't visit me late nights anymore because I don't like her special needs kids, and remember, no one else, liked her or her kids enough to help them, that's why she asked me.

She only posts pictures of herself without her kids on social sites. She use to say, she love me.

If newcomers don't have to deal with her special needs kids and can get late night visits,

Am I wrong, to think because I was nice enough to help her and her family when nobody else would, that she should have respect, admiration, appreciation and a desire to be there for me?

Am I wrong to kick myself, for being nice enough to help a special needs lady and her family, when her own sisters, brothers, dad, cousins, aunts, uncles and her 3 different baby daddies family and friends would not help them?

Does it sound like I got used and she was only saying she loved me to have a place for her family to live?

Please leave a comment below and tell me what you think.

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